Month: August 2010

In Defense of Chutzpah

“If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.” – Thomas Edison Speaking with a trusted confidante the other day, I spoke about this current desire to access the creative part of me.  I am not sure if its because creative energy is like a dormant volcano and its time has come, or because I am more confident and able to give myself permission to try doing more things again.  I am afraid I like doing lots of little things, but that I do them badly.  They don’t always look the way I want them to, so I just don’t do anything. In the mid nineties, still living in our family home, I took over the dining table and the lanai with all possible kinds of projects in progress:  clay beads, the beginnings of a simple bust, unglazed pottery, half painted canvases, smeared charcoal drawings, painted pots, colorful paper strips, etc. etc.  I was blessed with parents whose forbearance allowed me to indulge in my whims and express myself …

Chocolate Cake Day

I think it is time to reintroduce Chocolate Cake Day to my  calendar, like a special SURPRISE day once a month, or once a week, depending on need.  At the second job I ever had, one of the head teachers would sit with us in between the morning and afternoon sessions and say, “Hmmmm is it a chocolate cake day?”  That was a signal to the rest of the crew that a) It was a shit day and b) We need to be rewarded dammit!  Chocolate cake day also meant that however bad the morning was, we weren’t alone, it was okay to be crabby, but in the end, we had to all power through it.  So yes, I say, it is time to bring back Chocolate Cake Day.  Not more shit days, just more acknowledgments of powering through those sh*t days. At my current job, we have “pat on the back awards”  which are simply little shout outs that the teachers write to each other for anything from helping out with a difficult child, …